Why I Love Angry, Make-Up Sex

Getting into fights with my partner isn’t the most fun thing in the world, but sometimes it does lead to something very, very fun — make-up sex. When you argue and fight, tension builds up between you two, and even after everything is mostly smoothed out, sometimes tension remains.

To me, there’s no better way to get that tension out and clear the air than a good, hard fucking.

I’m not a very confrontational person at all, it actually scares the shit out of me, so when I get into fights or arguments with my partners I often feel very doom and gloomy like the end is near, so connecting sexually after a fight is a good thing for sure.

But sometimes it’s just a little better when it’s angry, primal, and every motion and act comes from an emotion inside you that you need to get out.

Sometimes I want my man just to punish me.

I want the manliness of my man to come out in full force, I want to be taken and roughed up.

I like my hair pulled, and I love spankings, but most of all when it comes to make-up sex, I just want my partner to pound into me hard and fast so we can use each other until we are finished.

There doesn’t seem to be anything feministic about it.

Sometimes I practically want to be dragged, caveman style into the bedroom, thrown down and dirty fucked by a man who takes all the control into his own hands. This is interesting for me because I usually like to take the lead in the bedroom, but for some reason when it comes to make-up sex I like to be fully ravaged and dominated.

I like the man on top, pushing my legs apart and shoving himself into me while he whispers in my ear what a bad, bad girl I am…

The spontaneity of make-up sex is an additional turn-on.

You don’t always know when you’re going to get into a tiff that needs some make-up sex, but when it happens it usually happens fast, hot passion coming out of nowhere.

I actually have a fantasy about this — about being in the throes of a fight with my partner but then suddenly he comes at me and puts his mouth over mine to shut me up, wrestles me to the floor, and tears my panties down before shoving himself into me, fast and hard.

He pulls at my hair, bites at my nipples, holds me down and doesn’t let me up…and giving in to that sort of almost abusive, angry sex actually feels really good to me.

Once in a while, in times like these, it’s nice to leave my own dominance at the door and let someone else take charge of the situation.

This isn’t to say you can’t have hard, angry, male-dominated sex without fighting.

Some women like to be ravaged and “punished” by their lovers all the time whether they are fighting or not.

But for me, it’s a cathartic thing.

It’s pounding out all the remaining bad emotions (literally, pounding them right away!) and orgasming my way into forgiveness and relief.

The great thing is, you’re helping to fix yourself while you mend your relationship a little bit after that fight, so it’s sort of a win/win for both partners in the scenario.

Because, really, who doesn’t come out of some good make-up sex not feeling better about their situation?