How to Give Her an Orgasm With Your Mouth

Attention: Men all over the world! If you aren’t making your woman have an orgasm each and every single time your mouth touches her body, then you are doing something wrong.

Coming to stats, according to most studies, only between 30 and 50 percent of women can achieve orgasm through penetration alone. Even of those who can, the ones who come consistently through sex might be counted on the fingers.

And coming to orals, 80% of women can only have an orgasm through clitoral stimulation brought on by oral sex, this means that you need to master it mandatorily if you want to give her pleasure.

That said, the fact is that a lot of women are used to bad oral sex. Why? because most guys see oral sex as a brief pit stop en route, to the main destination, so they don’t put much energy into honing their skills. And if a man puts in a little more effort in orals, he will be miles ahead of the pack. There is something blissful about driving a woman crazy with just your hands and mouth and leaving her doe-eyed and panting for more.

You should take pleasure in feeling her body tense up, in hearing her moan, and even in her taste and smell. And why not? She’s all heated up, and it’s because of what you’re doing to her. And with the right approach and technique, you will start feeling no less than a superman wielding an impressive assemblage of Krptonic superpowers that nobody else is having!!!

And here are some things to be taken care of to give her the kind of intense orgasms she’ll want you to repeat time and time again.

Start out slowly

Good music never starts with the crescendo. It starts slowly, gradually gathering steam and finally ending up into a mind-blowing potpourri of musical notes. The female orgasm also works in the same way.

The slower you build, the more intense her orgasms will be. And just like it is for men, the more the person giving oral is truly into it, the hotter it is and the faster the recipient will likely hit climax. So, if you planning to go down her, act as if you have all the time in the world to give her a mind-blowing experience.

A common mistake men do is to just flick their tongue around inside her at lightning speed. This becomes uncomfortable for her. The trick is to keep your tongue in an up and down motion from the bottom of her labia to the clitoris and maintain a constant rhythm. Gradually increase the momentum. If she likes it, she will ask for it. And when you do get to the clitoris, start slowly. Tickle it with your tongue and slowly start to add more pressure until you find her sweet spot.

Remember to vary the tongue movements. A little trick can be trying out various alphabets (A, O, M for example) with the tongue slowly, gradually increasing the speed. She will soon tell you which alphabet she likes the most. Remember, gradually means over the course of several minutes, not seconds.

Use your hands

Don’t be afraid to let your hands wander!

Move your hands all over her nipples, thighs, back, ass, and even around her anal area. This will make her feel like you can’t get enough of her and she will naturally relax even more.

Once she is warmed up, it is time to use your fingers. Slowly insert one or two fingers inside her vagina while you suck on her clitoris. Gradually peel the labia folds with your softest fingers and make a ‘come here’ motion to stimulate her G-spot. If she does not like your fingers penetrating her, you can let your fingers linger and stroke around her entrance to take advantage of the massive amount of nerves there.

Both penetration and lingering are good and a combination of both works the best most of the time. This will soon get her thrashing around the bed in the throes of multiple orgasms as your tongue and fingers move in harmony.

Just be sure your fingers are very clean and that you have filed down any rough nail edges.

Be consistent

Consistency of speed is very important in oral sex. Do not give half-baked oral sex. Once you start, do not stop until she has an orgasm.

It is natural that, as she nears orgasm you may be tempted to up the ante and speed things up. This might prove to be an anti-climax. While every woman is unique, it is always best to stick to what you are doing at the same speed till her “almost there” moan converts to an earth-shattering orgasm. Resist the urge to go faster and faster and encourage her to relax and take her own time.

Do not put pressure on her to get the big O as fast as possible. Tell her how sexy she is and how much you enjoy going down on her. The key is to put her at ease so she can achieve it in style. Stay down there as long as it takes. Patience is sexy.

And you don’t have to stop at the first orgasm. One orgasm is great, but two is fantastic. Note that the clitoris can be very sensitive after climax so, don’t dive back in for Big O number two right away. Instead, focus on her other erogenous zones like her nipples, labia and rest of the vulva.

Once her clitoris has sufficiently recovered and soaked in all the emotions, circle it gradually for round 2 of orgasm. Remember there are no limits to a woman’s orgasm and the key only lies in making her feel relaxed and enjoying her experience.

Lastly, ask her what she wants.

A common theme throughout oral sex will be communication. And good communication goes well beyond moans and grunts (although even that is important).

The reason why most women get bad oral sex is that men frequently assume that their “tried-and-tested” method will work like a dream on any woman. It’s important to remember that every woman (and body) likes different sensations, rhythms, and positions when it comes to oral sex. For her to reach her orgasmic potential, a woman has to be able to tell you what feels good and what feels REALLY good. The difference can often be as small as moving a few millimeters of pressure to the left or applying just a wee bit more fingering.

And men need to be curious and open to actually ask a woman what she wants or likes. Great oral also requires your tongue to talk and not just lick her. An honest open conversation with her not only takes care of her sexual experience but also makes sex unique and fun to do.

Remember, every woman is different, so there’s no ‘right way’ to do it, other than the way she enjoys. So, gradually keep improvising yourself and meander blissfully, soaking in the excitement of the moment, till you get it right.